We all have them—faults.

Some of us speak too quickly. Others carry a short fuse. Some are forgetful, while others struggle with pride, jealousy, or insecurity. And guess what? If you’re human, you’re in that mix somewhere too.

Hailey and I have learned that love isn’t just about big moments and sweet words. It’s about patience when the other person is tired. Grace when someone’s attitude flares up. Forgiveness when things don’t go as planned. In friendships, teams, marriages—any relationship—it takes room. Room to grow. Room to stumble. Room to still be loved even when you mess up.

Paul’s words in Colossians hit hard: “Make allowance for each other’s faults.” That’s not just a suggestion. It’s a calling to build space in our hearts for people who aren’t perfect—because that’s exactly what Jesus did for us.

Think about it: if Christ held every one of your faults against you, where would you be? But instead, He gives us mercy. He steps in and forgives. Not because we deserve it—but because that’s who He is.

We’re called to reflect that same heart to others. Not because it’s easy. But because it’s holy.

Here’s the challenge:

This week, look for a moment to give grace instead of judgment. When someone’s words hit wrong, when a friend drops the ball, when your sibling gets under your skin—pause. Choose grace. Make room.